Tom Stedman

I’m taking part in Sands Ribbon Run

This October, during Baby Loss Awareness Week (9–15 October), I am taking part in the Sands Ribbon Run. Having recently picked up running again, I’m pushing my limits to complete a 10k in memory of every much-loved baby who isn't here with us today.

This cause is deeply personal to myself and Lauren. We have faced the heartbreak of both miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy - an experience that turns your world upside down in an instant.

Pregnancy loss is a shared tragedy, but the perspective of partners and dads often goes unspoken. Trying to be the pillar of strength while carrying your own silent grief, confusion, and pain is incredibly tough. I want to run this 10k not only to honour our losses, but to shine a light on the male perspective of baby loss and let other partners know that their grief matters too.

Sands does crucial work to ensure that anyone affected by the loss of a baby receives the compassionate support they deserve. They run dedicated helplines, train midwives and medical teams, and fund vital research to prevent future loss.

I’m taking on this 10k to push myself for a cause that means everything to us, and to raise funds so no family has to navigate this path alone.

If you are able to donate, whatever you can give will mean the world.

How your donation helps:

£20 could provide a bereaved family with a memory box to help create and keep safe precious, lasting memories of their baby.

£35 could answer a call from someone reaching out for support who has been through pregnancy loss or the death of a baby.

£100 could help ensure every hospital in the UK has a dedicated Sands volunteer to help healthcare professionals access vital training and guidance.

Thank you so much for your support.