My Activity Tracking
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My target 15 kms
My Story
I'm fundraising in aid of Sands, for every much-loved baby sadly not here today.
My story began when I went for my 20 weekend scan, everything seemed ok heart beat strong, moving like no tomorrow but then they left the room, said ‘I will be back in a minute’ as I lay starring at the tv on the wall off my baby I knew something was off they don’t just walk out while scanning.
Then she came back and said we need to get to Liverpool woman’s hospital the following week to double check my baby’s kidneys. The day came went in for the internal scan and my baby had no kidneys. My baby was slowly suffocating and there wasn’t anything I could do. At the age of 23 this isn’t what I wanted to hear, my baby was already loved. The doctors said the best way so I get to hold my baby was a medically advised abortion. ‘Abortion my baby is loved, wanted and will always be just that’ was my response. I was told otherwise I would miscarry at home most probably on the toilet and never get to hold my child.
At 23 weeks 3 days (17th december 2009) my baby’s heart stopped I knew it she just stopped moving no warning just stopped. I went in to hospital and was induced on the 19th December, all I could think is ‘please not today it’s, your cousins birthday any day but today’
My baby girl was born on 20th December at 12.01am, while holding her saying our goodbyes, and getting her blessed there was a butterfly on the window, and snow began to fall.
My baby girl was at peace, watching from above how loved she is, the government state she was never born or died but I know I gave birth to my baby girl, I held her in my arms and I will always know she was born on the 20th.
I struggled badly after that, and ended up in counselling to help me. Was put on all sorts off tablets but they didn’t work. I know she is up there and hope she is proud of what she sees.
If it wasn’t for sands that day we would not have the memories that we still have today thanks to their memory box.
Sands ensure that everyone affected by the loss of a baby gets the support they need and deserve when facing the toughest of times. They campaign for change, provide training for midwives and healthcare professionals, and support research so that fewer babies die and so that less families experience the tragedy of losing their baby. Anything you are able to donate means so much.
Thank you.
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My Updates
✨ WE DID IT – WE MADE IT TO THE TOP ✨
Sunday 23rd Aug
WE’RE ON OUR WAY – FOR EVERY BABY GONE TOO SOON 💛
Saturday 22nd Aug
💛 We Climb for the Ones We Held, But Couldn’t Keep 💛
Wednesday 19th Aug
About the family
Sunday 3rd May So I have 2 sisters, a sister in law, 1 brother, a brother in law , 2 niece, 3 nephews so far join my self and my son to complete this, we are all very grateful of the memories we have from our baby box when Lexi was born sleeping. I was in a right mess and without them I don’t think I would off made it this far or brought my son up as a single parent writhin a year of loosing my girl. I have to thank them aswell for everything they have done for me and joining me on this adventure to help other people like myself. ❤️❤️ ShareThank you to my Sponsors
£55.88
Darren Roberts
£55.88
Alex Morris
So proud of all you, have a great time walking up there
£28.44
Margaret Kearsley
£27.05
Maureen Kearsley
£25
Cheryl Kearsley
£23.45
Anonymous
You have got this, I know you will always do whatever you can to support your whole team to makeit to the top. You have the biggest heart.
£20
Cheryl Kearsley
£15
Alex Mantova
Good luck everyone ♥️♥️
£11.55
Courtney-jane Dykins
£10
Vikki Roberts Hall
Good Luck Guys xxx
£10
Ffion Taylor
£6.56
Taylor Tabner
Best wishes ❤️
£6.56
Margaret Kearsley
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