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My target 5 kms
Running for Oscar🩵
For my beautiful boy, Oscar. For every baby who should be here today.
I’ve committed to taking part in the Sands Ribbon Run during Baby Loss Awareness Week (9–15 October), and honestly, I never imagined that I would ever be writing something like this.
I never imagined that at 19 years old, I would have a baby to grieve rather than a baby to bring home.
My beautiful boy, Oscar, was born sleeping on 7 June 2026 at 2:21am.
During my pregnancy, we were told that Oscar had severe brain abnormalities. We were faced with conversations and decisions that no parent should ever have to hear or make. At 25 weeks pregnant, I had to say goodbye to my baby before I had even had the chance to watch him grow up.
I had imagined everything for Oscar.
I imagined meeting him for the first time.
I imagined bringing him home.
I imagined his first smile, his first Christmas, his first birthday.
I imagined watching him grow into the little boy he was meant to become.
Instead, I had to give birth to my baby knowing that I would never get to hear him cry, take him home, or watch him grow.
There is no easy way to describe what that feels like.
I left the hospital with empty arms, while my whole world had changed forever.
But Oscar was here. He was real. He was loved. He was my son. And although I can’t watch him grow up, I will spend the rest of my life making sure that he is remembered.
That is why I am doing the Sands Ribbon Run.
I am running for Oscar.
I am running for the babies whose parents had already chosen their names, imagined their futures and loved them long before they were born.
I am running for the parents who have had to leave hospital with empty arms.
I am running for the families who have had to learn how to carry grief alongside everyday life.
And I am running because baby loss shouldn’t be something we feel we have to suffer through silently.
Sands supports families who have experienced the death of a baby, helping parents feel less alone and giving them somewhere to turn when their world has been turned upside down. That support means more than I could ever properly put into words.
This run will probably be one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. There will be moments when I wish I didn’t have to do it, because I wish more than anything that I was preparing for a future with Oscar instead.
I can’t change what happened to my son.
I can’t bring him home.
But I can make sure his life meant something. I can say his name. I can tell his story. I can raise awareness. And I can help another family feel a little less alone.
So on that run, every single step will be for my boy.
Oscar, you should be here.
You will always be my baby.
You will always be my son.
And you will always be worth running for.
For Oscar. For all the babies. Always. 🤍🕊️
If you can donate, even £1, it would mean more to me than you know. Your donation could help Sands continue to support another family through the unimaginable.
My Achievements
Fundraising page
Updated Profile Pic
Added a Blog Post
Received 5 Donations
Raised £100
Raised £150
Reached Goal
Increased Target
Thank you to my Sponsors
£12.25
Mary Howard
£39.83
Kathy Harris
Keep up the good work Izzi you are doing so well. Well done.
£23.45
Grant And Becky
Best of luck x
£6.56
Millie Mack
💜
£55.88
Auntie Pam
I am so proud of you izzi Oscar will remain in our hearts forever 🩷
£10
Nicki Arnold
Go smash girly xx
£6.56
Liv
Love you so much ♥️
£12.01
Emily Wilders
So proud of you and we’re sending all our love 🩵🩵
£55.88
Dad And Mum
We love you so much so proud of the amazing person you have become ❤️❤️❤️❤️
£28.44
Karen Reynolds
Good luck darling xx
£12.25
Rube Xxx
love you forever and always proud oscar is always watching over you🩵
£28.44
Nan & Grandad
Good luck with your run Izzi. We’re so proud of you xx
£15
Louise Rowley
Sending you lots of love and strength 🩵🪽🩷
£109.25
Andy & Kelly
Good luck with the run. X
£28.44
Jay And Jo X
🙏 Love jay and jo hall xx
£12.25
C Deadman
Such a lovely thing to do Izzy Oscar will be with every step of the way x
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Auntie Tricia
Good luck baby girl . Every step Oscar willl be with you . Im so very proud of you and how you have been so strong .Deep down your hurting but just keep what memory you have of him always in your heart . God bless you always
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Maria
Big hugs 💙
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Rhiannon
🤍🤍
£12.25
Gloria Turner
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Anonymous
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Kayleigh King
£12.01
Louise
Love you pickle! So proud of you 🤍
£23.45
Danny
£10
Claire Smith
Oscar will always be part of you darling xx
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Demi Hanlon
Sending love🫶🏼
£5
Anonymous
£20
Kayley
Love you 🩵
£12.25
Angela Warburton
Thinking of you on your run 💙
£20
Sara Dacosta
£20
David And Vanessa Spring
So sorry for your loss Izzy. Such a great thing you are doing in raising money for Sands X
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Aimee Mcallister
I’m so proud of you izzi ! Your so strong , love you always ❤️
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Kerry Key
£25
Anonymous
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Lula Marie
You got this!
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Ella
So proud of you Izzi, Oscar will forever be loved and remembered🩵 I love you both so much xx
£5
Rosie Taylor
Sending my love
£28.44
Vikki C
I’m so sorry you went through this Izzi. Loads of love xx
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Vanessa And Simon Webster
£10
Holly Richardson
You are amazing Izzi 💙 rest peacefully Oscar! Lots of love Holly, Josh, Carter & Gus xxxx
£17.89
Danny, Aimee & Max
We love you so much and are super proud of you! Forever in our hearts Oscar 🤍🩵
£55.88
Mum And Dad
So proud of you princess, Oscar will forever be with us all 🩵
£5
Emma Watson
So sorry you ever had to experience this izzi, sending you and the family love x
£28.44
Nanny T
Our thoughts are with you all 🩵
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Harley
Izzi you are such a beautiful soul. You are so strong and a women many of us inspire to be like. What you are doing is so brave and I’m beyond proud to say I have such a good friend like you in my life. Love you with all my heart🩵
£10
Summer
£10
Hollie Murphy
💙
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Auntie Tammy Uncle Marc
So proud well done , Baby Oscar will always be love by so many x
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Anonymous
£5
Lauren Savill
Amazing thing to do ! Keep your head high🩵 Oscar will be so proud of his mummy x
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Auntie Hev
So proud of you gorgeous !! Biggest of love to you darling xxx
£23.45
Vicky
❤️ send you all the love and hugs from all of us. You are doing an amazing things and your little boy will be so proud of you ❤️
£10
Evie Chisnell
£5
Ren
Love you 🤍 🩵
£28.44
Ella Birnie
I’m forever proud of you my angel girl , Oscar will always be so remembered and loved more than you know. I love you more than words express ♥️♥️
£5
Angela Jordan-harris
Thinking of you Izzy. 💙💙💙
£12.25
Lisa A
🥰
£6.56
Bobbie
So proud of you Izzi🩷No one should ever have to go through this, and his name will never be forgotten xxx
£6.56
Shelley Pethers
Baby boy will be so proud of his mum like we are proud of you baby girl
£12.01




Well done Izzy Love Aunty Mary xx