Amrita Bhachu

Walking 100k for Sands

This year I’m taking on a challenge that means a lot to me — walking 100 kilometres to raise money for Sands, the charity that supports anyone affected by baby loss.

This isn’t just a fitness goal. It’s personal.

Between 2017 and 2020, I experienced three miscarriages.
Three times I had hope, plans, and a future pictured in my mind — and three times I had to grieve something invisible to most people.

One of the hardest parts of that time wasn’t only the loss itself… it was how alone I felt.

Miscarriage is so common, yet it can feel like something you’re meant to quietly endure. I often felt like I had to carry it privately, be “fine” quickly, and move on — even when I was completely heartbroken.

And I know now I wasn’t alone in feeling that way.

Why Sands?

Sands is there for people when the unthinkable happens — with support, resources, and compassion, not just in the moment, but in the long aftermath too. They also work to improve care and raise awareness so fewer families have to go through loss without support.

I wish I’d had more support during those years. I wish I’d known where to turn.
That’s why I’m walking.

My rainbow babies 🌈

After those losses, I was blessed with my first healthy rainbow baby in 2021, and then again in 2024.

They are my light — and also a reminder of the babies I didn’t get to hold.

This walk is for all of them.
And it’s for anyone who has ever sat in that quiet space of grief, wondering why the world keeps moving when yours has stopped.

How you can help

If you’re able to donate, even a small amount, it would mean the world — and it will go directly towards helping Sands continue supporting families who are facing loss.

And if you can’t donate, sharing this page is just as appreciated.
Baby loss can be so isolating — but together we can help make sure fewer people feel alone in it.

Thank you so much for reading, for supporting, and for walking beside me in spirit. 💛