Cole & Abbie

Cole and Abbie

We're on a mission to raise £1 million

Sands ensure that everyone affected by the loss of a baby gets the support they need and deserve when facing the toughest of times. They campaign for change, provide training for midwives and healthcare professionals, and support research so that fewer babies die and so that less families experience the tragedy of losing their baby. Anything you are able to donate means so much.

Thank you.

My Achievements

Fundraising page

Updated Profile Pic

Added a Blog Post

Received 5 Donations

Raised £100

Raised £150

Reached Goal

Increased Target

Thank you to my Sponsors

£6.56

Cathyg

Good luck guys.

£12.01

Lisa Williamson

Hey girls hope this helps even a little IV been following IVF with Hudson I love watching yous

£55.88

Nienke Van Zutphen

Hello from holland, Keep up the good work. My first pregnancy after one round of IVF results in a miscarriage.. 3 years ago. It were hard times.. Luckily I now have a little girl, she is 2 years old. With Love, Nienke en Juna

£12.25

Lorraine Kelly

You guys are amazing you should be so proud of yourself.

£10

Anonymous

£12.25

Anonymous

Great cause, hope you smash it x

£5

Anonymous

£6.56

Aimee Cumming

Sorry it’s not a lot but hopefully a little help towards the target! It’s amazing the amount of money you have raised! Sending love to all who use sands services.

£12.25

Kiera

£28.44

Anonymous

Hi Cole and Abbie, I’m from west cork in Ireland. I lost my baby in march of 2025 and fell pregnant with my rainbow baby in the same week you guys did so I have followed yer journey from the very beginning, every scan ye had I had too. I was so heart broken for ye when ye lost Hugo’s little twin. I’ve tried many of times to support Cole’s project with no luck from Ireland so I’m delighted to finally find a like to give my little donation. Best of luck guys, ye are fantastic! ❤️

£15

Meri

Just, thank you! You’re both amazing parents.

£25

Donna Clark

I follow yr ups and downs on facebook. My daughter in law had an etopic pregnancy so we.know what it feels like.

£10

Felicity

I think the way you have turned your pain into purpose is amazing. Thank you ☺️

£28.44

Bev

Good luck reaching your target. You are amazing xx

£12.25

Mary Mc Elhinney

Great cause

£28.44

Anonymous

£12.25

Anonymous

£12.25

Veronica Elliott

Love to you all

£25

Anonymous

£3

Rebecca Gill

£10

Sam Wilkinson

£10

Rachel Read

£33.83

Emily

£1.53

Zoe Wombell

£12.25

Terri Ayton

£28.44

Nancy Anderson

Ladies, you are truly heroes. The love that you spread all over is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen in my life. I love you always and thank you.

£12.25

Sam Ferguson

£28.44

Joanne Martin

you have both done so well to raise this amount so far you'll get to 1 million no problem sending you and your family all the love in the world joanne xx

£17.89

Anonymous

£5

Julie James

£27.84

Hayley..x

You truly are amazing people, will do anything to help others! Hugo is gorgeous and I know his angel twin will be watching over him. I wish, one day I get to meet you guys. Keep being you! ❤️

£20.14k

Cole Howat

£50

Lisa

Well done Cole and Abby hope this small donation helps towards the goal ♥️♥️♥️♥️

£1.53

Anonymous

£12.25

Denise

2 beautiful ladies (and their families)helping an amazing charity . All the very best on reaching your goal x

£109.25

Helen Keeler

Hope this helps towards reaching your target. Thanks for the amazing work you do to help so many people ❤️

£10

Lauren Spencer

£6.56

Becky Spencer

You got this keep smashing it 💪

£30

Charlotte Debtuch

Good luck both!

£12.25

Kelly Dream Bites Bristol

Wow ur smashing it! Well done! Just a little something g for your pot!

£5

Victoria

£6.96k

Cole Howat

£1.77k

Cole Howat

£25k

Cole Howat

£1.38k

Cole Howat

£37.32k

Cole Howat

£1.26k

Cole Howat

£39.24k

Cole Howat

£1.53

Anonymous

Good luck guys - keep up the good work. The legacy for your little ones lives forever…

£21.84

Wendy Horrocks

Not a lot but I hope it helps. you guys are amazing, congratulations on the birth of baby Hugo xx

£50k

Cole Howat

£30k

Cole Howat

£21.84

Anonymous

£11.33

Karen Dallas

You have both turned heartbreak for your family into something so positive. Love your posts and all the best for the birth of your baby not forgetting the precious one you have lost. Xxx

£5

Tania Bushe

You are doing a great job well done guys so proud of you wishing you all the best 👍

£220k

Cole Howat

£11.33

Amanda Cooper

sorry i couldnt afford much , i hope it helps , keep going you two are beautiful souls, my sister lost one of her twins she carried both till the end her survival twin is the most amaizing clever kind hearted soul ever xx

£50k

Cole Howat

£16.56

Hanna Medgett

£6.11

Lisa Williams

Cole and Abbie u are both doing amazing I no it ain’t a lot but every penny counts u are smashing it lots of love xx

£6.11

Elaine Jamieson

So proud of your work you are doing well done 😍

£11.33

Natalie Sullivan

£6.11

Shell Murphy

£11.33

Rebecca Smith

Just because you’re both wonderful humans, and I couldn’t not be in on this amazing challenge!

£6.34

Lisa Williamson

I'm sorry it's not alot but I hope it helps all the love to you all

£11.33

Molly Howat

£50

Vee Vee

Watching you carry so much love alongside so much loss has changed the way I see strength. The way you show up for others, even while holding your own heartbreak, is the most beautiful and painful kind of courage. I am endlessly proud of you, and so grateful to call you my friends. You are doing something extraordinary. Love you

£5

Caroline Poynter

Wishing you the best and know that you’ll do everything you can to reach this target!

£20

Bethany Keen

You ladies are absolutely amazing!!!

£100k

Cole Howat

£100k

Cole Howat

£27.05

Tegan Rouse

I have every faith that you will complete your goal and could go for more. Every single donation helps and you have made it possible for all of us to give whatever we can give. Thank you for making this possible.

£1

Anonymous

£1

Alison From Crawley

Hope this helps in someway to reaching your target!

£6.11

Anonymous

You’ve both done amazing turning your heartbreak into something so positive to help others. <3

£5

Kirsty & Ali

Congratulations girls! My girlfriend and I are hoping to start our IVF journey in the near future. You guys really are an inspiration! Sending lots of love and light! 😊☺️😘

£5

Tania Bushe

Good luck guys

£11.33

Barbie Potts

Keep up the great work yous are doing amazing hearts of GOLD ❤️

£11.33

Kelly Evans

£11.33

Sam

Congratulations girls this is incredible! Me and my ex gf were also in your position in 2016, we turned up to our 12 week scan only to find our baby had died at 8 weeks 5 days so we know how you feel and to turn that grief into something so big and positive and powerful is inspiring. Wishing you all the very best of luck Sam xxx

£6.11

Veronika Safonova

I've been watching you guys forever❤️ i am sooo proud of you both🫂 I live with chronic condition and some days suffering in agony while looking after my parents and 3 kids and your videos is honestly my escape when I need time to myself, you make my world brighter and day better. Please know that you are making difference in people lives ❤️❤️🫂🙏

£21.84

Anonymous

£30

Clare Durkin

£11.33

Nicola Speke

£11.33

Joanne

£27.05

Mary Shannon

So happy to donate to your cause after suffering the loss of twins at almost 11 weeks. Manifesting for you!

£250k

Cole Howat