Fee & Matt

Ribbon Run

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We're taking part in Sands Ribbon Run

We're taking part in Sands Ribbon Run this Baby Loss Awareness Week 9-15 October.

Support me as I take on 5, 10 or 15km in support of Sands, helping them to continue to build a world where more babies survive and more families receive the happy ending they deserve.

Ribbon Run is a sponsored run, walk or jog where thousands of people come together to remember their babies and raise funds for Sands. It’s free to sign up and it’s up to you how you take part. You can run it, walk it, push it, or jog it; alone or with friends and family.

By sponsoring me, you are helping Sands break the silence around baby loss and to continue to save babies’ lives.

£3 - could provide a Sands birth certificate for a baby whose birth cannot be registered through a register office.

£10 - could provide a hand and footprint kit to help create memories.

£20 - could provide a bereaved family with a memory box to help create and keep safe precious and lasting memories of their baby.

£35 - could answer a call from someone reaching out for support who has been through pregnancy loss or the death of a baby.

£100 - could help ensure every hospital in the UK has a dedicated Sands volunteer to help healthcare professionals access our training, guidance and support.

My Achievements

Fundraising page

Updated Profile Pic

Added a Blog Post

Received 5 Donations

Raised £100

Raised £150

Reached Goal

Increased Target

My Updates

A heartfelt thank you

Friday 18th Oct
Unfortunately none of the replies to your kind donations are sending.

Thank you so much for your generous donation. We've raised an incredible amount for Sands, and we will continue to do so for them and many other charities that have helped us at this time and in the future.

We are so lucky to have had Myles and to love him in our family for the rest of our lives. We have been so well looked after and supported, by the hospital, charities, friends, families, colleagues and strangers and we are so grateful for this and the love shown for Myles and us. 
It's because of this postive and love filled outlook and attitude at this devastating time, that we are able to function, think, grieve and process. And this is allowing us to love and remember Myles and be happy that we got to have him even if just for a brief time, those moments will go on to fuel the rest of our lives, so us saying thank you will never feel enough but we do thank you, from every inch of our hearts.

Thank you,
Matt, Fee, Myles and family x

Ribbon Run 2024

Sunday 13th Oct
What can we say 🥹 a day that started in rain, turned into sun ⛈️☀️
A bit like our journey recently to say the least and to turn a cliche phrase to a meaning with matter...

- 'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain.'

This storm will never pass for us, but that won't stop us from dancing in the rain and showing Myles the life he would've had and witnessed in his mum and dad 🧡 🎃

No one should've had to run today, but we're now in the one parent club no one wants to join and this means we're not alone and we have people around us who we are even more connected to by our loss and our babies 🌠

And if we can do anything in life, we can do everything for Myles. We can keep running, climbing, doing everything now for Myles and for other families that can benefit from the incredible charities and from the money we raise. 

So thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of all our hearts for being so incredibly supportive and generous, and please please please keep sharing our story, talking about this cause and don't be afraid of the reason we had to run today - don't live in fear and try live life as full as you can. It's not a given for any one of us - don't take it for granted 🧡🤍

Thank you to the best auntie H Heather Caroline - doing everything to help organise us with the Ribbon Run and for doing our perfect tshirt ans honouring all the babies gone too soon 🤍🌠 and thank you to Sands, the stillbirth & neonatal death charity and Kirsty McDermott Kirsty Delta Coaching for being there and for hosting the Glasgow Ribbon Run for us today - Lillian would be so proud of her mummy and daddy today and everyday ❤️ 💙 

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Not a goodbye just a see you later alligator

Monday 7th Oct
Today we get to celebrate you Myles and everything you're doing even though you can't be here with us. You'll get to see how many people love you and always will.
It's not goodbye, its just a see you later alligator 🤍🌠
We love you forever baby boy 🧡

Grateful for the love and support

Thursday 3rd Oct
We are so blown away by the donations so far and we ask that you keep sharing to help spread the love, raise awareness and collect any donation possible.

Thank you so much to amazing friends and family driving the force behind this cause. Myles would be so proud to have known you all and we are so touched to know you have been touched by Myles and love him as much as we do. 

No family should have to suffer in any way, much less in situations like ours but it does unfortunately happen and charities involved that your donations are supporting, have helped so many through the losses and will go on to keep help and supporting through the future. And now even more so in the name of Myles so we thank you and we love you for all the kind messaged and support x

A positive little pumpkin

Tuesday 1st Oct
Myles is and was so perfect and he was so kind to us in pregnancy and through labour and everything about his story and our experience had been magical and so full of love the only thing we wish we could change is the outcome and him not being here with us now.
 We can't change that part but we are so proud to have had him and held him and love him. He was absolutely beautiful and perfect and there may be no reason for his passing at all. We have our ups and downs but it's not as bad as if we'd never even had him at all so we are grateful that we got those moments and him in our lives 🤍
 But like any other parents,  we love talking about Myles and his story and our journey. He's just our perfect wee positive pumpkin and light in our lives that's getting us through.🧡

Myles

Tuesday 1st Oct
Myles M Murray 
20/09/2024 13:22 4lbs 8oz 48cm

👣We never got a proper hello or to hear him cry, but at 13:22 on 20/09/2024 he arrived to say goodbye. 
Baby Myles Murray has been with us from the start and our little boy will always be in our heart. 
Please support us if you can, we couldn't have done this without Sands🤍

Always our little pumpkin 🧡🤍🎃 

Thank you to my Sponsors

£500

Global Commissioning Ltd

From all your friends and colleagues at Global!

£200

April Hernandez

£159

Uncle G

Myles will be massively proud of you both! Go team Myles! Love Uncle G x

£106

Gail Howatson

Thinking of you all. Every little bit helps.xx

£100

Michele

Always in our hearts. Proud of you all & the huge legacy for Myles

£100

Stewart & Maggie Donnelly

£84.80

Karwn Mcgarrigle

To Fiona and Matt sincere condolences on the loss of Baby Myles. Thinking of you all. Love from Karen, Eileen, Alan and Kathleen xx

£79.50

Keir Glasgow

£53

Amanda Prince

Sending you both love, xxxx Amanda & Alex xxxxx

£53

Andrew And Marie Wills

Thinking of you all - this is for baby myles 🧡

£53

Neil Arlott

£53

Cleartech Group Limited

£53

Jackie Baldwin

Thinking of you both.

£53

Manny

£53

Sean Rogers

£53

Ryan Lundie

Thinking of you all and best of luck tomorrow 💙x

£53

Yvonne Carroll

🤍

£50

Charlie Tonkin

£40

Hazel & Tommy Steele

In our thoughts always 🧡

£37.10

Ailsa Harvey

Sending strength and love

£32.40

Emma Lang

£31.80

Lynsey Mcgillivray

Myles has touched my heart so much. A beautiful boy with the most amazing Mummy and Daddy x

£31.80

Elaine Smitj

So sorry for the loss of Myles - thinking of you all 💔💔💔

£31.80

Matthew Murray

Love you

£31.80

Steph & Danny

So proud of you both! Love Steph & Danny xx

£30

Adam, Chloe & Leo X

Sending you all our love and strength! Adam, Chloe & Leo xxx

£26.50

Mike Murray

Myles Murray!❤️

£26.50

Scott Mcc

Good Luck Matt & Fiona

£26.50

Lyn & Euan

Thinking of you all 💙

£26.50

Lisa Dingwall

Love you 🧡

£26.50

April And Fraser X

To Fiona and Matt, the strongest parents we know 🧡 sending all our love to you both at this time. So devastatingly sorry for your loss. Thinking of you both x x x

£26.50

Fraser Purdie

£26.50

Kirsten Milligan

Thinking of you both. 💜

£26.50

Caitlin Delves

£26.50

Stacey & Derek 💕

Love you💕

£26.50

Craig Nicol

£26.50

David And Kyrstin Fleming X

£26.50

Debbie And Ruth Gallacher

£26.50

James Allan

£26.50

Laura Malloch

So very sorry for your loss. Send you all lots of love 🧡

£25

Anonymous

£25

Pat Rothwell

£25

Pat Sweeney

Hold each other tight lots of love ❤️

£23.32

Megan, Scott And The Boys Xx

£21.20

Laura Davidson

Sending loads of love. Xxxx

£21.20

Gillian Mackie (howatson)

Send love to you all ! 💙

£21.20

Rita Fleming

Great cause

£21.20

Gill Walker

Sending you both all my love and strength at this difficult time. Myles is beautiful 🧡 x

£21.20

Linda And Stewart Anderson

What a great effort🍀🍀

£21.20

Gillian + Conor

🧡🤍

£21.20

Robert

Sending love from the Ward family x

£21.20

Chris

Lots of love Chris, Alison and Joseph x

£21.20

Sarah Beattie

I send you both all my love and more to help through such a difficult time. Myles is absolutely perfect. He will always be with you both❤️xx

£21.20

Fraser Young

£21.20

Tasha Cox

£21.20

Sean Mcfadyen

£21.20

Rhanna, Alex + Archer

Love you all lots🧡🧡🧡

£21.20

Louise D'arcy

Thinking of you all x Louise and Alexander x

£21.20

Fiona Murray

£21.20

Sheelagh

So sorry for your loss 💜

£21.20

Derek And Alison

Sending Love 🥰

£21.20

Niall Brennan

£21.20

Lloyd &rose Buck

Run well Fiona xxx

£21.20

Jonny Appleyard

Good luck to all on the run. Thoughts are with you.

£20

Lindsey & Ross

Wishing you the best of luck with the run in memory of your beautiful Myles. Love from The Kennedy’s xxxx

£20

Vicki Tant

Love to you both 🧡

£20

Sophie Scott

All my love 🧡

£20

Rebecca Wills

£20

Calum Rabone

Thinking of you all x

£20

Gayle Allan

£20

Gillian Smith

Thinking about you both sending so much love ❤️

£20

Kevin & Audrey

Lots of love from Kev & Audrey x x x

£15.90

Danielle Thom

£15

Ailsa + Corrie

Proud of you 🤍🧡

£10.60

Zoe Graham

Thinking of you both at this time and sending lots of love your way xxxx

£10.60

Bertie Allison

£10.60

Riah Stobo

Sending you strength and love Fiona ✨

£10.60

Angela Collins

I'm So Sorry For The Loss Of Your Beautiful Baby Boy Myles. Thinking About You Both.XXX

£10.60

Kelly Black Xx

£10.60

Juanita Zaldua

£10.60

Fiona Mctaggart

So sorry 💔💔x

£10.60

Leanne Glancy

£10.60

Eleanor Lane

£10.60

Michael Hines-mackay

From Kirsty and Michael with all our love

£10.60

Abby Glen

Sending you lots of love and strength 🤍

£10.60

Rachel Law

Sending you so much love 🧡

£10.60

Anonymous

£10.60

Brody Ward

❤️

£10.60

Sally Kirkland

£10.60

Dianne Long

Bless Baby Myles, the cutest pumpkin on the patch ❤️

£10.60

Laura Ross

Sending love & strength xx

£10.60

Anonymous

From Steph and Daniel's friend. Love to you ❤️

£10

Tom, Cathy, Rory & Otto

Sending all the love T

£10

Eilidh

Sending you so much love for your run! Incredible effort! Lots of love Eilidh xxx

£5.30

Charlene Stafford

I’m so sorry to hear what you have been through. Sending you both lots of love xxx

£5.30

Kimberly Mckenna